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More importantly: On most dating sites, your profile isn't truly "people ". The only people who can see your profile are other people signed up for the site. So if someone you know sees your profile. well, they're on the site too, aren't they? Neither of you have anything to be ashamed about. I ran into a couple friends on OkCupid, and it ended up being really funny -- and we ended up talking a lot more about our experience in the future.
Even if you are very honest and write on your profile that you have kids (which is what I do), you will have men not even read your profile, match with you, and when you say something about your children, they will freeze. Send them off with a smile. Men who aren't comfortable if you have kids are extremely insecure, or think you are looking for a father for your children. You are dating for you, not for your children. Don't take the time to explain that though, and don't let it discourage you. Russian Women Seeking Men On to the next.
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